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My god father Romesh chander was the best man on earth and no one could replace him. He went out of his way to help us and since I was born he was always there for me. I loved him soo much. He was the only one I could talk to about my problems in life and he always had a brilliant answer. He was in the centre of my heart he was an amazing god father.
Words alone cannot express my feelings but when someone we love dies,we never get to see them again but we will always feel them, because they live on in our hearts and our very fond memories in our smiles and tears and even though we can’t touch them,we will never forget how they touched us.No farewell words were spoken,no time to say goodbye, dear Romesh was gone before we knew it, and only The Good Lord knows why.
I lost dear,sincere and generous friend. I still miss him so much, he was such an amazing man.God has him in His arms but I have you in my heart.
We had arrived at his lovely home, far later than had been agreed.
School boys are not well known for keeping to arrangements.
Uncertain of our reception we tried to be as inconspicuous as possible,
infant -like, pushing the braver ones forward.
“Shush, Ashwan’s dad is coming to the door” was
explained by those closest to the front. The door opened and we were
greeted by a huge smile and warm handshakes. “ Ah, Ashwan’s
friends. Please come in, we have been so looking forward to meeting
you. I trust you can all stay late, and if anyone has difficulty
getting home you are most welcome to stay” Not the foreboding
business man who demanded perfection that we had assumed he would be.
“Go for a dip, whilst we rustle some snacks together…” I stayed
for as long as I could overnight before my mother made contact and
asked if was in hospital!
This was the beginning of a lesson in
hospitality, generosity and guidance that has stood me well over the
following 30 years. Work hard, but show humility. Be wise in
decisions but share your gains. Create a home for your family and
welcome guests as if it was theirs too.
We never truly leave this place. We leave our mark through those who
meet us and who are better for knowing
us.
My god father Romesh chander was the best man on earth and no one could replace him. He went out of his way to help us and since I was born he was always there for me. I loved him soo much. He was the only one I could talk to about my problems in life and he always had a brilliant answer. He was in the centre of my heart he was an amazing god father.
by aarman murgai
It’s only takes a little space to write how much I miss you but it will take the rest of our lives to forget the day I lost you.
By rachna murgai
Words alone cannot express my feelings but when someone we love dies,we never get to see them again but we will always feel them, because they live on in our hearts and our very fond memories in our smiles and tears and even though we can’t touch them,we will never forget how they touched us.No farewell words were spoken,no time to say goodbye, dear Romesh was gone before we knew it, and only The Good Lord knows why.
I lost dear,sincere and generous friend. I still miss him so much, he was such an amazing man.God has him in His arms but I have you in my heart.
There is a big vacuum which will never be filled. First you took care of me, then you looked after us, and then you gave me all.
There will never be any other “YOU” in my life again. I MISS YOU BHARAJI. Hari
We had arrived at his lovely home, far later than had been agreed.
School boys are not well known for keeping to arrangements.
Uncertain of our reception we tried to be as inconspicuous as possible,
infant -like, pushing the braver ones forward.
“Shush, Ashwan’s dad is coming to the door” was
explained by those closest to the front. The door opened and we were
greeted by a huge smile and warm handshakes. “ Ah, Ashwan’s
friends. Please come in, we have been so looking forward to meeting
you. I trust you can all stay late, and if anyone has difficulty
getting home you are most welcome to stay” Not the foreboding
business man who demanded perfection that we had assumed he would be.
“Go for a dip, whilst we rustle some snacks together…” I stayed
for as long as I could overnight before my mother made contact and
asked if was in hospital!
This was the beginning of a lesson in
hospitality, generosity and guidance that has stood me well over the
following 30 years. Work hard, but show humility. Be wise in
decisions but share your gains. Create a home for your family and
welcome guests as if it was theirs too.
We never truly leave this place. We leave our mark through those who
meet us and who are better for knowing
us.
Huw
Romesh and Hari checking all ok at Ashwans Wedding
One day today you are always in our thoughts. God Bless. Kathleen, Maureen, Malc and Brian xxxx